Births: to pay or not pay?

The birth of a new man - a miracle! And that miracle happened without the "hitch", each expectant mother asks the question: how to do it?. First, you need to find a midwife, which would correspond to all your wishes and agree about everything. But now it has become fashionable to pay for a doctor or midwife, so to say, "past the cashier," but it gives a guarantee that deliveries will take place smoothly? Everyone responds to your question, but let's try to understand. Often, finding a doctor to engage expectant mothers begin long before the X hours. Interviewed friends and acquaintances are divided into four camps: the first agreed with the doctor / midwife and were satisfied, while the latter did not agree and were pleased, too, third and fourth, that his personal physician, that without it - everything went bad. And at the first camp of the mothers acquire the contacts miracle doctors. Appointed by the meeting, followed by an acquaintance, negotiated all the details and now, apparently, all covered by the rear, we can only wait for the promised day and time. But sometimes all the plans begin to crumble like a house of cards. And we must be prepared for the fact that labor is not only a natural process, but also unpredictable, and no doctor will protect you from any complications during childbirth. However, doctors in hospitals are not divided into free and paid. Each of them swore an oath of Hippocrates, and not leave the woman in childbirth without the aid, which needs it, and her baby. Practitioner / obstetrician takes a shift of up to fifteen genera, can it be said that one of them experienced, and the other not? In this regard, it all depends on the wishes of the expectant mother. One just wants to give birth to at the right moment she had professional help, the other in addition to the wishes affectionate glance, a good smile and words of support. To date, most maternity hospitals are practicing joint labor, which may be present husband, mothers, mother or girlfriend. So it may be worth it for people to trust someone to wipe the sweat from his forehead, a massage of back and say the words to facilitate such a painful but important process. For it may happen that stroking a hand to those in need of affection, the doctor / midwife nedodast professional attention to those who need it more at this point. Eventually, doctors, midwives and other honey. staff who helped to be born to your baby, you can always thank flowers, gifts, positive feedback in the appropriate forums and in the book "reviews and suggestions." As a result, I can say that the choice is yours ...